I got pregant at the age of 19. The father said he wanted nothing to do with the child and paid my parents $300 to bail. I didn't know about the payoff. Anyway, I married another man and he knew that he wasn't the father and signed as the father anyway. He never had anything to do with my son. Now at the age of 40, my son is an alcoholic and needs help. Is it possible to make the bioligical father pay for rehab? I would like for the father to get to know my son as he has felt abandoned all his life. I don't make much money and am having to have my son live with me again. I can't do this myself. Is there anything hid biological father can be made to do?